What do you do when one of your baby's best friends literally breaks her heart RIGHT THERE while you are watching?
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When we first moved to Long Island I knew it was only a matter of time before we would be up against certain situations where my girls would come home and say, "Sloane has this and Emily has that or Taylor has an ipad and she is only in second grade, why can't I have an ipad?"
I am well aware of the fact that children wanting something another child has is not a phenomenon specific to our town. This is a normal occurrence no matter where you live any where in the world. The level of the material possession may change but kids are kids and they want what other kids have and there will always be those kids that have more, or the latest gadget, or the best clothes.
Having said that, Long Island and New York are not exactly like the rest of the country though. People here spend money hand over fist. I am sure many of them can afford to buy these things, and some that do, probably shouldn't, but they do anyway. Their priorities seem to be out of line and saving is not as important as spending is, and a keeping up with the Jones' attitude is a very real thing.
Lately, we have found that trying to raise children in this environment where we are savers and many others are spenders, is definitely a rough road to navigate. It seems that I am explaining on a weekly basis, the value of money and how we choose to spend or save ours, may differ from others and those are our choices.
Everyone makes different choices. Some people choose to be fiscally responsible and plan ahead and others are not as fiscally responsible and don't plan ahead. I think my girls are getting it and someday they will thank us for teaching them the concept of saving.
Lily has decided to take twenty five percent of her allowance and put it away for the house she wants to buy in Charleston, when she graduates college.
So we forge ahead because when I hear Lily talk about saving and the house she is going to buy, I am hopeful that some of our tremendous efforts are sinking in, but believe me a brand new pair of tall Uggs is much easier for them to understand.
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Belle's class has been doing segments with a Long Island Kidsday Reporter that has included various product reviews, stories and interviews. Last week her teacher conducted a lottery in class and four children were picked to travel into the city, go to Planet Hollywood and meet Bailee Madison, the little girl in the new Jennifer Aniston movie, Just Go With It.
Belle got picked!
Planet Hollywood is only three blocks from my office!
And they didn't get into the city until 4:30pm, which means I got to work almost the whole day and still partake in a school activity with my girl!
What a coup for me....and her!
Once the kids got into the city and made it to Planet Hollywood, Bailee came out and was photographed by about twenty five photographers.
{I have never seen so many flashes going off at once and they must have taken at least four thousand pictures of her. The flashes were constant. I had a glimpse of how annoying paparazzi must be to celebrities.}
{Then she put her handprints into cement so they could add it to the other celebrity handprints that adorn the walls throughout the restaurant.}
The kids waited for Bailee to complete her various interviews and then she came to a private part of the restaurant and sat with them while they asked her the questions they had prepared. Belle was so composed and acted like Bailee was just a friend. After every answer that Bailee gave, she would say "you're so cute" to Belle.
After Bailee left, we stayed and had dinner at Planet Hollywood. The entire day was magical to Belle. Just the train ride into the city was enough to give her a thrill.
I am so blessed that I got to share something like this with Belle and I know she will never forget it, especially the part that had me right there by her side.
I love you baby!
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A good friend of mine at work is from London and we constantly talk about the difference between Europeans and Americans.
Americans have giant flat screens TV's in our living rooms, Europeans think that is beyond crass.
Americans buy tons of clothing, Europeans spend a great deal on very few outfits and wear them much more frequently.
Americans live to work and Europeans work to live. They travel extensively and value vacations more than we do.
Americans go out to restaurants when getting together with friends, Europeans have more low key dinner parties.
Americans are more impressed with money and material things that people posses, Europeans, are more impressed with the last book your read, or your political views, or what you are currently studying.
Sure their teeth are shit compared to ours, but they seem to have a lot more substance than we do. Of course these are gross generalizations and there are outliers in every category, but there is a truth to what she says.
She herself is now living the life of a genuine New Yorker, although she has to go back to London soon as her Visa will expire. She feels like since she has come to live in New York, all she does is work, spends the majority of her salary on rent and eating out, but says she can't help it as this is just the New York lifestyle.
The one thing that I find the most fascinating about her experiences and feelings about the differences between Americans and Europeans is that she says, in the U.S nobody ever really just does nothing. People in America are always doing something.
In London when you ask someone on a Monday, "how was your weekend, what did you do?" and they respond simply, "nothing." She says most people will answer back, "beautiful."
Whereas in the U.S. if you ask someone that same question and they were to answer "nothing", they might look at you as if you were a little sad and pathetic.
One day a few weekends ago, we had an early dinner {one of our favorite things to do} and then the girls and I sat around the table and worked on a fun project. Just me and my girls. Each one pulling a chair so close, they were practically in my lap.
It was beautiful.
Beautiful to be sitting together working on something that didn't involve anything technical or modern. Just talking and listening to each other. It was beyond awesome and certainly the highlight of my weekend.
So for as much as I can, which usually isn't very much considering our sporting schedule on the weekend, I am going to try to schedule a little more nothing.
A little more nothing so that maybe one day we could actually be bored.
I would love to see what that feels like.
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